Hey you once had a crush on that guy right?! What would you do if he suddenly came up and told you he's sorry and really sad he didn't do more for you and tries to contact you but you now have a boyfriend but he's still hot and cute and kind of you know? I'm in that situation and it's hard to explain would you maybe tell me what you would do?
idk, it depends. first of all, do you even care about the person you are with (your bf), are you actually in love with him and have strong feelings or just passing the time? if you like him more than a lot, turn to your (ex??) crush and tell him you’re really sorry, he had his chance and he missed it and you’re having a great time with your bf and you really do not want to ruin it by acting so thoughtlessly and turning back to him. second aspect is that you couldn’t care less about your bf and you still have a crush on that guy, so in that situation you try to explain to your bf how great it was that you guys were together but you still have strong feelings for that crush of yours and you’re terribly sorry that things turned to be that way but you cannot really control these things called “emotions”.
i’d definitely stay with my boyfriend btw. if my crush dumped me once and was crappy to me, he’d definitely do it twice so nopeeee.
“Do not fall in love with people like me
we will take you to
museums and parks
and kiss you in every beautiful
place so that you can
never go back to them
without tasting us
like blood in your mouth.”—Gabriel Gadfly (via perfect)